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stephy
02-23-2008, 07:45 PM
You dont have to read this. Its mainly a stress realise cause other wise i am just guna either have another mental brakedown or just brakedown in tears compleatly.



My brother decides to go out with my best friend behind my back without telling me. so i am up in my room one night watching skins (L) and i find it very upsetting and i come downstairs after its finished which was about half 12ish at night and my mums like...you found out then?
and i am like..Found out about what? And she says " kayley and michael are like.. yeah together now " and i was like :|...okay?.
She talks me through it and says that Michael says they " belong together " so i get all worked up about it cause i dont really wana loose my best friend. So my mums on msn talking to my brother and kayley in a joint convo and clearly my mother isnt happy about it so she tells them and michaels like " i dont care mum its my life" so it ends up being a massive argument and kayley says " its up to you steph wither me or mike go out." so i am stuck what to do and because she is my best friend i say yes, its your life not mine.
so i go upstairs and listen to some ava full blast with my dj mixer ear phones on and just try and carlm myself down. I get a text of kayley about half an hour later saying " are you sure your okay with it." but i didnt want to lie to her by saying yes cause its blates that i am not.
So i just write " Hi, my name is tom...delonge..but it should be delooonge casuse i went to france and they said i was pronouncing it wrong, but i was like no its delonge! and they go no it is er...DELONGE! " and she texts back saying " And i was like fuck yeah that sounds rad!"
So i neveer said i was happy with it.
The next day at school everyone comes up to me and askes me a million and one questions about it and i just say what i was thinking. Id never answer there questions. But kelly ( my other best friend ) can clearly see there is somthing wronge cause i only say urethra qoutes when i dont want to say what i atcually feel. And i tell her everything thats happend and happening and how kayley said that " nothing is guna change between us steph. am guna see you just as much as i do now" and everything but the truth is. I havnt seen her outisde of school for over a week now.
She keeps lying to me about where she is and what shes doing and i can tell my brother has been to her house cause he smells like her house.
I had a go at my brother for " ruining my life " - abit over dramatic but i really wanted to make my point. And he is just like " FUCK OFF STEPH! " and slams the door in my face.

I have no one to turn to.
My Closests mates are going further and further away from me. Even when i am in class with 30 other kids surrounding me i still feel alone and lost in my own thoughts.
My mums been drinking ALOT more then she normally does latley aswell so i dont wana ask her for any of the money i need for my school trips so i am failing in them classes aswell as my normal ones cause i am not focused on what i am doing latley. I have a writing block so i cant even do my music course work which has to be in in 2 weeks.

I dont know what to do. you dont have to reply. i just needed to rant.
































gaaaaaaah.

Sergio
02-23-2008, 09:23 PM
Well maybe it's just me being biased because I don't have a girlfriend, but you should be happy for your brother.

watch1the8world2
02-23-2008, 09:28 PM
unless you and your bestfriend have some secret lezbo thing why is it bad that her and your brother date? sure she is gonna pay attention to him alot. but she would even if she was dating some random guy

...Chris...
02-23-2008, 11:01 PM
i think its because if or when they break up she'll stop talking to stephy because its her brother.

stephy
02-24-2008, 05:06 AM
i think its because if or when they break up she'll stop talking to stephy because its her brother.

Exsactly my point.
And i dont know why my brother " loves " her after like 2 days of knowing her. He has just come out of a 2 year relationship. He normally falls for people that pay the slightist bit of attention. And Michael is compleatly the opposit to what she normally goes for.
I mean michael is ginger - she goes for people with black hair and loads of other tings like tall skinny and scene-ish. My brother is a full on chav that listens to to much H-I-M.

I know it just sounds like i am being childish but its alot worse then it sounds. TRUST me. I dont normally mind about things like this, but you just DONT go out with your best friends brother. It makes it orkward for when they come round to your house. I dont know whether she comes round to see me or my brother anymore.

watch1the8world2
02-24-2008, 08:30 PM
yeah i guess i just didn't understand.. im sorry to hear that stephy thats got to be real tough on you

KoD
02-25-2008, 05:37 AM
I can be your E-Friend :)

sexysamlloyd@hotmail.com lol :p

It sucks that the whole thing is making you really upset :(
My advice is to sit your brother down, promise to have no yelling or screaming fights, and to not interupt each other when talking; and just...talk about it. Find out what he really feels, question everything he says. But don't do it because you want to get a certain answer out of him, do it because you care about your friend and friendship.

Once that is done, sit your friend down. Let her know how you're feeling. Tell her the truth. But again, don't tell her the truth and make her feel like she should break up. Just tell her what you're afraid of.

If you end up doing that, add me on msn, or post here if you want lol ... and let me know how it goes :)