Death...

[Freak64]

so today 3 of my friends died in a car crash...and ive been feeling like shit and crying all day....and hen i was told about there deaths so many memories of my other friends that also died came out and that made me more depressed...and it got 2 the point where i wanted everyone to leave me alone..and i would sit in my room with all the lights off and cry and punch my wall....and my girlfriend would try 2 help me....but i didnt want help....all i wanted 2 do was cry and feel like everything was crashing down......

so i feel really depressed right now :(

[CosmicAVAfan]

sorry to hear about your friends

[devil]

I'm really sorry to hear about your friends. Death can be really hard to deal with especially when the people who die are young and full of life. The best thing you can do is spend time with friends and family and don't be afraid to cry. It helps. I'm not sure how close you were to them, but I had a similar situation where a very close friend died about 4 years ago. It is really, really hard. For longer than you might think, really. The first couple months are so bad, and it is still really bad for the first year, but things get better gradually.

Anyway, I hope you're handling it okay and if you need to talk about it at all, we're here.

[Freak64]

thx Devil...your the best.
i guess im kinda doing better then i was earlier.
im letting my girlfriend try and comfort me...
and im like 1% happier

[Grey]

One of my best friends died a few years ago from internal bleeding due to a bike crash he was in. We were friends for 11 years (since Kindergarten). It was hard to sleep for months because of all the memories that flooded my mind. Its just really hard to know someone for so long and see them all of the time and then they are just gone and you know you'll never see them again. As time passes, it does get easier. So I'm sorry you are having to go through what Devil and I did. One thing I learned to do is to appreciate my time with my family more. Everyday I take at least an hour to spend with them. Good luck with everything, and remember, its good to have your girlfriend (or whoever) around to help you vent your feelings so they don't turn into any long term suppressed emotions which can lead to depression.

[Sergio]

I'm sorry. I don't really know what to say, but stay positive and don't turn down the support from your girlfriend. They're there to help.

[stephy]

The best way to deal with death is to write down all the memories you have of them in a book. Find as many pictures as you can of them with you or just them being mongs in the picture. Then think of all the songs that remind you of them. Write them all down in the same book. Maybe make the font darker on the lines and words that remind you of them. And put the book somewere safe for when you feel real down.
Punching things and blocking people out..trust me i know these things as all the people on here know... i think? I went abit mental.. like real bad. I lost all focus and was really stupiedly happy over the littliest things..like Tom DeLonge :|!
But yeah do that and keep the book safe for when you really unhappy and you will find yourself feeling alot better when you read it. And if you rember anything else about them, put that in the book to. I have one about my dad and i have it all nice and safe in the bottem draw with a lock on it so nobody else can see it.
and holy shit...its like... a year next month since he died....
shit.... thats gone so fast.